One must take the idea of what their life should be, rip it up, and live what their life really is. You do not live your life for the opinion of others. Do what feels right. That’s is healing.
We are allowed to mess up, it’s human, you must realize that every human makes decisions they are not proud of, and people that are good for us will forgive and understand.
We can only control ourselves and sometimes when we try to control others, we lose what we love.
Don’t let someone else dictate your normal.
I feel that the best things you can do are, live from moment to moment, be ok with your feeling because they’re natural, just let yourself feel, remember you’re not alone, and tomorrow is a new day. The sun always rises.
Life is a state of impermanence, death is not. Enjoy life the best you know how.